Could be my dad

So, on again about my life in general... Not long after I found out the name of my biological father, I decided to go ahead and try to find him. Of course, I only really had the last name. My aunts weren't sure which brother it was for sure but I could find out ;) I had my contact at the library get pictures of both of the guys from the yearbook that my birthmother was a senior in. Of course, it's not like I really look exactly like one or the other, but it was fun to see where I came from (even if I'm not sure which one is my biological father). I am assuming the one who was a senior with Toni is my birthfather, but that really is just an assumption. So, I googled a little bit and found that the one guy is here in Montana still. I dialed six of the seven numbers about ten times before I finally made the call. A very friendly gal answered the phone and put my guy on the line. I wasn't really sure what to say. I didn't want him to be too blown away. As far as I know, my birthfather doesn't know I even exist! So, here's what I said, "I'm Toni R***'s daughter. She actually had me her senior year and her family thought you might know something about my father." REALLY??? How dumb was THAT? But, he was very pleasant and said he couldn't even remember who she dated in highschool. He didn't know that she had had a baby, either. SO... Either he had a sex with her and she never told him about me, or maybe he's just in denial, or maybe he knows EXACTLY who I am and he doesn't want to have a relationship. I don't know, I just didn't feel like throwing him for such a loop at that point. Maybe someday I will be brave enough to get in touch with him again and try to find out what I can. Maybe.